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# 00108 :  over coming jealousy
i kow that you should not covet anyhting that someone else has, but i a having a very hard time with this lately. i am not coveting an object, but a relationship that two of my friends have together. please give me some advice about how to overcome this jealousy becuase it is not right for me and my friend who is also a believer to have such feelings..
Post by : etoile  View Profile    since : 31 Mar 2006


Reply by : sunilajoseph@aol.com   View Profile   Since : 2 Apr 2006 3:15:57 AM Close
That is minding somebody elses business.
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Reply by : sunilajoseph@aol.com   View Profile   Since : 2 Apr 2006 3:19:17 AM Close
Etoile,

You have to leave them alone. Don't mind their business. They have something to do which matters to them. There is no need for you to know about it.

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Reply by : holly   View Profile   Since : 2 Apr 2006 10:09:08 PM Close
You should get away from possessiveness, otherwise you will have to face lots of problems later on in your life.Please pray to God to get you out of these silly matters.
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Reply by : etoile   View Profile   Since : 2 Apr 2006 10:27:11 PM Close
dear "sunilajoseph"
it is my business because my friend lied to me about something, im not "getting into" her business, i am becoming part of her business and i am trying to help her keep her witness good because the way she has treated me over the relationship between her and another one of my friends has caused her to not act appropriatelty and other people are starting to not like her..
-in his love
etoile
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Reply by : sunilajoseph@aol.com   View Profile   Since : 3 Apr 2006 12:05:10 AM Close
etoile,

Your story looks like something related you personally. Then it is not your jealousy. You have to talk to her and solve the problem yourself.

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Reply by : etoile   View Profile   Since : 3 Apr 2006 11:59:39 PM Close
how do i confront her about this, becaues the bible sayd that you should correct a brother or sister quietly about what they are doing, i have talked to her about it but she will no longer talk to me and i fear that our friendship has been broken..
in his love
etoile
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Reply by : sunilajoseph@aol.com   View Profile   Since : 4 Apr 2006 3:05:41 AM Close
etoile,

It is a sad story. I don't know how to deal with it. I never had such an experience. I simply end the friendship with her because I don't like what she is doing. I will not force her my way.

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Reply by : holly   View Profile   Since : 25 Apr 2006 7:17:03 PM Close
etoile,
You feel your friend is doing some thing wrong then you can correct her.If she is not listening to you and still doing the same mistake then u should tell some one who is responsible for her. Other wise not only you her family also will loose her.
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Reply by : etoile   View Profile   Since : 25 Apr 2006 8:10:04 PM Close
i had thought that the problem was fixed a little bit ago, but now she is starting the same thing over again, and i feel really agry with her, and her parents wouldnt believe me because they see their daughter as being "perfect" and as though she could do no wrong. i have given her three chances to change, the first time she completely ignored me, the second time she made me feel sorry for her and her "not being able to accept" her mistakes, and now this time she is going back to her old ways and she seems to feel no guilt about it..i think that i will take sunila josephs advice and end the friendship..
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