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# 00037 :  Is Arranged Marriages successful ?
Can arranged marriage be successfull? How can two unknown persons live along? Can family choose the life partner?
Post by : yung  View Profile    since : 25 Feb 2003


Reply by : faith   View Profile   Since : 26 Feb 2003 7:51:25 PM Close
What do you mean by arranged marriage? Christian arranged marriage is simply is directed introductions. Where adults who knows both couples introduce perspective bride and groom to each other. The couple makes there own decision. This helps the couple to make decision not based on emotions rather intelectually. Then you learn to grow in love. Weather you know each other for a long time or even a day "It takes work to work a marriage."
Start with prayer.

God bless.

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Reply by : Sam   View Profile   Since : 4 Jul 2003 2:33:41 PM Close
What faith said should be the arranged marriage. But thats not happening. Parents see a guy for their daughter and if they feel everyhting is good that marriage will take place, which is not right.
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Reply by : Joe   View Profile   Since : 9 Jul 2003 7:27:36 AM Close
Arranged marriages today in Christian circles are no longer "arranged" as the term was once used. It used to be that the persons getting married had no choice. Today, no will be forced to marry anyone. Parents merely introduce the two persons and they make their own choice. Western values have demeaned marriage in many ways. Marriage is not just about liking your spouse and being friends with your spouse. It also includes a variety of factors, which will hold the marriage together when the liking wears off. These factors should obviously include a Christian foundation, family history, spiritual maturity and commitment and other factors.
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Reply by : agape   View Profile   Since : 2 Jul 2004 11:51:46 PM Close
you need to know a person before you get married, then pray for each other God will guide in that matter. And then you will believe that you both were made for each other.
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Reply by : ba   View Profile   Since : 2 Jan 2005 7:03:22 PM Close
Not to be hippocritical, but When my parents were trying to "Forcefully" arranage a M for my life, I ran away from home. I Ran away from home, and became homeless because my mom and dad were trying to ruin my life, with this subject. I hate this topic. When ever my parents talk about it, I change the subject, because I dont want them to ruin my life with that decision, and I dont want to: go back to the jungles of Kerala, find a uggly duckling wife, bring my the beastly woman back to america, and domesticate her hence. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF GOD IS AT HAND

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Reply by : ifellinlovewithamalayalee   View Profile   Since : 23 Oct 2011 10:25:21 AM Close

to ba:

 

who said .. I dont want to: go back to the jungles of Kerala, find a uggly duckling wife, bring my the beastly woman back to america, and domesticate her hence.

 

 

YOU ARE FUNNY

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